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Splash against Dementia Nov 2025
Dementia is the UK’s leading cause of death, currently affecting more than 900,000 people. By 2040, that number is expected to soar to around 1.6 million.
My Dad was diagnosed with dementia just under a decade ago. Dementia is painful, not only for the individuals affected by it, but also their families. There’s a complex grief associated with caring for a loved one with dementia. Often, we find ourselves mourning the gradual loss of the person we once knew, comforted only by rare glimpses of their true self.
Over the years, I’ve watched helplessly as it has taken more than just his memories — but it has also taken his once-gregarious personality, charming wit, and independence.
Now, at end-stage, bed-bound and non-verbal, I’ve witnessed the full spectrum of emotions that he and so many others face in their battle with dementia: the frustration of once-simple tasks becoming impossible, the deep grief for lost memories, the fear of an uncertain future, and perhaps most heartbreaking of all - the overwhelming loneliness of being surrounded by loved ones yet being unable to recognise or communicate with them.
Despite how common dementia is, there is no cure and treatments remain limited. Yet research is advancing, and scientists are learning more and more about how dementia develops, and how we might prevent or slow its progression.
This November, in honour of my Dad, I’ll be taking part in a sponsored swim to raise money and awareness for Dementia UK. The funds raised will support groundbreaking research and vital services for families affected by dementia.
If my Dad knew I was attempting this, he'd laugh in my face, before cheering me on! Not sure what I've signed up for- but can't let the old man down now!
Would really appreciate all your support and sponsorship on this journey - join me this November to help make a splash against Dementia ( pun intended). xx
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Thank you to my Sponsors
£150
Suthe Yogalingam
£150
Sithappa, Rani Sithi, Gaavin
So proud of what your doing❤️
£100
Ruqaya Idrees
Cheering you on! To infinity and beyond!
£100
Julien Ribera
£100
Niri Anna, Tazeen Acca And Thaliha
Dear Vahini Well done for a great cause. Wishing you the best of luck for the day itself.
£100
Iman Abdul-khaliq
You are absolutely amazing V! So proud of you ❤️❤️
£100
Krishie Akka, Bil & Sherlock
This is amazing Lil' Sis! So proud of you and I know Periappa will be too. Best of luck! We're all rooting for you xx
£75
Baskaran
£69
Anonymous
Good cause. Best of luck in your swim!
£69
Vahini Tharma
£65
Abby And Family
Proud of you! You’ve got this 💪🏽🏊🏽♀️
£50
Vijaya Chitthappa
Good luck on this wonderful endeavour Vahini, Love Vijaya Chitthappa
£50
Buvanm Raj
Good luck Vahini. Appa will be very proud of you. From Perriamma
£50
Kesh
Keep smashing it for a great cause, Vahini - you've got this :)
£50
Shanmugam Kumarakulasingham
Good luck Vahini,
£50
Naren
All the best Vahini
£50
Kowthi
Wish you all the best Vahini !
£50
Deenesh Rajkumar
❤️❤️❤️
£50
Puvana Asokan
Well done Vahini. We are proud of you and happy to be part of your fund raising for a good cause - Dementia helpline. Wishing you good luck with your challenge.
£50
Vasanthy Aunty
£50
Nimal
All the best, Vahini!
£50
Lovain
Happy birthday to Appa - he is so proud of you! Lovain, Uthaya Aunty & Yogalingam Uncle
£50
Dr. Maheswary Nadarajah
I am happy that you are doing something meaningful to help others.
£50
Nadarajah Thirukkumar
You are doing a great job
£50
Ebo Dadey
Proud of you V. Keep on swimming x
£50
Balasothy Sooriyakumar
Well Done Vahini… we are very Proud
£50
Kirupan Maama And Anto
Wish you all success in your noble endeavour
£50
Thevi Maami
£50
Ambika Kulan
It is amazing idea and keep it up Vahini . All the best
£50
Anonymous
You are an inspiration and a gem! So proud of you. You’ve got this jaani xxx
£50
Indica
Good luck with your swim! What you’re doing for this cause is truly inspiring.
£50
Piriya Siva
You’ve got this Vahini! So proud of you x
£50
Anonymous
Hey V, you’re awesome! Keep it up!
£50
Shanila Siddiq
Sending you lots of love and strength ❤️ Shanila x
£50
Sivi
Good luck! Just keep swimming!
£50
Janany Theivendran
Good luck Vahihi, Appa will definitely be proud of you! Xxx
£40
Ragulan
Well done Vahini!
£33
Kiruparatnam Kowshikan
All the best Vahini.😊
£33
Nabila Rahman
A great cause V proud of you ♥️
£33
Nabeela
Good luck queen ! 💫💫💫
£33
Dan L
Good luck Vee!
£33
Kosala Ravindran
Good Luck Vahini
£33
Mira
Vahini, I am so proud of you! The kindest soul. Good luck!
£33
Meera Kumarakulasingham
Good luck Vahini. Great cause.
£33
Arani Nagarajah
You can do it V! What an amazing cause. Well done. Arani X
£33
Amina Jama
You go girl! Im so proud of you x
£33
Zin
You can do this!!
£33
Charlsea Maynard
Go V!!
£30
Mekala
From Mehi
£30
Tarni
All the best Vahini Acca! :)
£29
Mickell Crawford
£25
Vadivu Yoga
Good luck
£25
Reece
Smash it big dog! x
£25
Malini Shan
Good couse you are doing wonderful thing.
£25
Ronald & Thakshi
Good luck Vahini great cause!
£25
Sharmila Sooriyakumar
£25
Ari
So proud of you big bro!!
£20
Bruno
Good luck Vee 🦾🦾🦾
£20
Siva Uncle And Malathy Auntie
Well done Vahini! Good work!
£20
Megatron
£20
Vathani
£20
Suve
All the best! This is so incredible, you’ve got this! <3
£20
Riya Patel
Good luck Vahini! Xx
£20
E
Well doneeee :))
£20
Kingsley Tso
Best of luck big sis, he’ll be proud of you :)!!❤️
£20
Hercules & Amelia
The Goat will always be behind you 😤
£18
Sayan Siva
Goodluck
£12
Kamalavathani Jeyaparam
Your kindness and dedication are truly inspiring, hope you reach your goal, well done Vahini
£10
Anonymous
£10
Anonymous
Amazing work! Keep it up, your parents would be so proud of you❤️
£10
Chithra Anta
£10
Shankar Uncle & Swarna Aunty
£10
Swarna Acca & Kanthan Anna
£10
Deepika Atwal
All the best.
£5
Deepika Atwal
£2.50
Jermaine Wright
Well done!
Always so proud of you! ❤️