Alison Mayes

In memory of my mum, Carole

Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in 2019. At first, she was able to carry on living her life much as she always had. But, gradually, the disease took away her ability to drive, her independence, her memories and, eventually, her quality of life.

Watching this happen to someone you love is heartbreaking. As her condition progressed, I had to watch my mum become less and less like the person she had always been. Sadly, Mum passed away in September 2026, by which time she no longer recognised me or other members of our family.

Alzheimer’s doesn’t just affect the person living with the disease — it affects the whole family. Organisations such as Dementia UK do amazing work supporting people with dementia and the families who care for them, providing advice, guidance and much-needed support through some of the most difficult times.

In memory of Mum, I’m hoping to raise £250 for Dementia UK to help other families facing the same heartbreaking journey.

If you’re able to make a donation, no matter how small, it would mean so much to me and would help support other families affected by dementia.

Thank you for reading, for your support, and for helping me remember Mum in this way. ❤️